SECTION 13 B DIVORCE BY MUTUAL CONCERN

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THIS SECTION IS VERY IMPORTANT , AS THIS GIVES MORE FREEDOM TO THE

HUSBAND AND WIFE , TO LEAVE EACH OTHER EASILY , FROM THE BOND OF

WEDDING.  IN THIS HUSBAND AND WIFE BOTH AGREE TO LEAVE EACH OTHER  WITH

OUT ANY PRESSURE , AND BOTH GO TO COURT AND APPLY FOR THE DIVORCE,

MUTUALLY.

IF THE HUSBAND AND WIFE DO NOT WANT TO LIVE TOGETHER  WITH EACH OTHER

ANY MORE THEN THEY CAN DECIDE THIS THEN THEY CAN GO TO COURT  FOR

THIS. IN THIS THE COURT GIVES THEM THE TIME OF 6 MONTHS THAT IS JUST FOR

RECONCILE  THE PROBLEM IF POSSIBLE THEN AFTER 6 MONTHS TOO , IF BOTH

THE SPOUSE ARE READY FOR THE DIVORCE , THEN THE COURT GRANT THEM

DIVORCE AFTER 6 MONTHS THAT IS SECOND MOTION, AND THEY ARE FREE FROM

CONDITION , THEN THEY ARE FREE TO GET REMARRIED .

ONLY THING IS THIS AS IF THE WIFE IS NOT EARNING MEMBER THEN SHE WILL ASK

OR SHE MAY ASK FOR THE ALOMONY , THIS CAN BE GIVEN MONTHLY OR LUMPSUM.

THIS THE FASTEST AND EASIEST WAY FOR DIVORCE.

IN THIS THERE IS LESS STRESS , AND SPEEDY WORK.

TEEN AGE PROBLEMS

GOOD DAY , IN LIFE THERE ARE COMING DRASTIC CHANGES ,WHICH WE DID NOT

EVER EXPECTED . THE LIFE IS BECOMING UN EASY DAY BY  DAY. AS BECAUSE OUR

TEEN AGE ESPECIALLY THE TEEN AGE YOUTH OF THE VILLAGE ARE MISGUIDED BY

TODAY'S WORLD'S INTERNET CHANGES , THEY KNOW HIE TO USE IT BUT YET THEY

DO NOT KNOW THAT HOW TO BE GUIDED BY IT ,

SOME WHERE OUR CITY KIDS ARE TOO MISGUIDED BY IT.

BUT WE CAN NOT BLAME THE INTERNET AS WHOLE AS WE AS PARENTS HAVE THE

RESPONSIBILITY TO CHECK THEM AT EVERY STEP , WHICH WE AVOID OR SOME

TIME IGNORE AND BECAUSE OF THIS OUR KIDS ONLY SUFFER. WE AS PARENTS NEED

TO GUIDE THEM IN THE SAME WAY AS IN EARLY TIMES OUR GRAND PARENTS USED

TO GUIDE THEM , BY TELLING STORIES AND BY PLAYING GAMES WITH THEM.

WE HAVE TO BE FRIENDLY WITH OUR TEEN AGE GIRLS AND BOYS , AS THEY ARE

GOING THROUGH DRASTIC CHANGES OF THE LIFE.

HORMONAL CHANGES :  THESE ARE THE BIG CHANGES WHICH EVERY PERSON OF

THE WORLD FEELS AT ONE TIME OF THE AGE. IN THIS WE FEEL CHANGES IN OUR

BODY , LIFE STYLE , PSYCHOLOGY. SOCIETY ETC. IN THIS WE FEEL THAT GIRLS

PARTS CHANGE FAST THEN BOYS , AS THE GIRLS ARE BEEN PREPARED FOR THE

MOTHER HOOD TOO BY THE GOD.

HERE IS SOME THING IMPORTANT , THESE ARE NORMAL CHANGES , BUT THESE 

WERE , IN EARLY TIMES ,GRAND MOTHER USED TO TELL HER GRAND DAUGHTER

VERY EASILY , BUT NOW A DAYS THIS IS THE DUTY OF THE MOTHER , AND THERE

SHOULD BE NO HESITATION . AS WE ARE TO PREPARE A LADY FOR THE FUTURE.

WE SHOULD TELL HER THAT NOW SHE IS BEING RECEIVING  THESE CHANGES FROM

THE NATURE AND EVERY LADY GETS THESE CHANGES.

THESE CHANGES START FROM NORMALLY AT THE AGE OF 12 OR 13 . IN GIRLS

HORMONES IN THE BODY ARE ACTIVATED BY THE NATURE. THESE HORMONES

IN GIRLS MAKE CHANGES LIKE , START OF MENSTRUATION CYCLE  IN THE GIRLS,

THERE BREAST GETS ENHANCED , THE BODY TAKES SHAPE , VOICE BECOMES

SWEET. THESE CHANGES GET THE STAND AT THE AGE OF 18 AS THESE CHANGES DO

SETTLE  BY THIS AGE. THIS IS THE AGE WHEN THE GIRL IS READY FOR THE MOTHER

HOOD. BUT ONLY PHYSICALLY  BUT NOT MENTALLY . YES MENTALLY SHE IS YET A

KID ONLY , AND THIS IS THE AGE WHEN YOU GET THE ATTRACTION FOR THE BOYS

BECAUSE BY THE NATURE YOU ARE MADE READY FOR THE MOTHER HOOD.

THE THE GIRLS NEED TO BE TAUGHT THAT IT IS NORMAL DO NOT TAKE IT OTHER

WISE AS EVERY GIRL IS GOING THROUGH THESE CHANGES.

THE CHANGES IN THE BOYS START AT THE AGE OF 14 OR 15 AND GET SETTLED BY 

21.

TN THESE CHANGES THEY FEEL THE BODY SHAPE TO BE STURDY. VOICE BECOMES

HEAVY. HAIR GROWTH ALL OVER THE BODY. SENSATION IN THE BODY ,

ATTRACTION FOR THE GIRLS , AS THEY ARE BEEN PREPARED FOR THE FATHERHOOD

BY THE NATURE. THEY FEEL DIFFERENCE IN THE NATURE, ATTITUDE , IN BOYS

LIFE EVERY THING CHANGES , THE SOCIETY CHANGES FOR THEM AND STARTS

EXPECTING MANY THINGS FROM THEM . ALL THESE THINGS NEED TO BE TAUGHT

TO THEM BY THEIR FATHER. BECAUSE GRAND FATHER IS NOT THERE WITH THEM

TEACH THEM EVERY THING EASILY , NOW THIS IS FATHERS DUTY TO TELL THEM

EVERY THING ABOUT THEIR THEIR CHANGES IN MENTALITY AND SOCIETY.

SEX PROBLEMS:

THIS IS NORMAL AS BECAUSE OF THE CHANGES ARE DUE TO HORMONES , SO THAT

THEY FEEL THIS ENXEITY  IN THEIR BODY , THIS SETTLES  DOWN AT THE AGE OF

21 IN THE BOYS AND 18 IN THE GIRLS . IN NORMAL LANGUAGE WE CALL IT HOSH

SAMBHALNA. TILL THIS AGE IN TODAY'S TIME THE KIDS HAVE DONE MANY THINGS,

AS SEX RELATION , ABORTION WHICH IS COMMON IN TEEN AGE TODAY. THIS IS

BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT AWARE OF THE THINGS WHICH THEY ARE FEELING.

WE AS THE PARENTS NEED TO GUIDE THEM AS WHAT IS ACTUALL MEANING OF

THESE CHANGES IN THE BODY, AND WHAT THE SOCIETY WANTS FROM THEM.

WE NEED TO TEACH THEM THE REAL MEANING OF THE CHANGES AND HOW TO

CONTROLL THE EMOTIONS WHICH THEY ARE FEELING. THE GOOD AND THE BAD

OF THE LIFE DUE TO THESE CHANGES.

BIGDA HUA OR BIGDI HUI.

SOME TIMES WE SEE THAT SOME BOYS OR THE GIRLS ARE GIVEN THE TABOO OF

BIGDA HUA OR BIGDI HUI. THIS IS WRONG , BECAUSE WE ARE UN AWARE OF THE

ACTUALL THING , AS WE ALL KNOW THAT THE CHANGES IN OUR BODY ARE DUE

TO THE HORMONAL CHANGES, IN THE BODY, AT THE SAME TIME , SOME BOY'S OR

SOME GIRLS HAVE THE THE HORMONAL FLOW VERY HEAVY , WHICH IS ABNORMAL

IN THE HUMAN BODY , IN THIS CASE THE BOY OR THE GIRL ARE UNABLE TO

CONTROLL THE FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS THAT THEY ARE FEELING , SO BECAUSE

OF THIS THEY DO SEX RELATION AT VERY EARLY AGE OR THEY ARE MORE

ATTRACTED FOR THE OPPOSITE SEX THEN NORMAL . THEY ARE CALLED BIGDA HUA

THIS IS A DISEASE AND IT IS CURED BY THE SEXOLOGIST .

NOW IN TODAY STAND THE MOTHER AND THE FATHER BOTH ARE EDUCATED .

SO IT BECOMES MORE THAN A DUTY FOR THEM TO GUIDE THE KID BETTER, AND IF

THEY FEEL LIKE THIS THEN THEY NEED TO TAKE THE KID TO THE DOCTOR AND GET

CURED.

BECAUSE OUR SOCIETY YET DOES NOT EXPECT THE GIRL AND BOY TO HAVE SEX

BEFORE REGULAR WEDDING.



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WHAT ABOUT THE AGED PERSON

TODAY THE LIFE OF OLD AGE HAS BECOME MISERABLE. THIS IS BECAUSE THE 

TIME AND THE GENERATION IS RUNNING FAST AND THE ELDER GENERATION IS

SOME WHAT LACKING TO CATCH THEM . SO THE GAP OF THOUGHT PROCESS IS

BECOMING WIDER AND WIDER , DAY BY DAY.

IN INDIA AND MANY COUNTRY LIKE INDIA , WHERE WE REAR OUR KIDS , ONLY

WITH THIS EXPECTATION THAT THEY WILL LOOK AFTER US IN OUR OLD AGE

THIS PROBLEM OS MORE. BECAUSE WE WANT OUR KIDS TO BE AROUND US WHEN

WE WANT , AND THIS THING SOME TIMES BECOMES A BOUNDATION FOR THEM.

BECAUSE THEY DO NOT WANT THIS EVERY TIME , WE WANT THAT EVERY TIME

SMALL THINGS SHOULD BE CELEBRATED BY THEM , BUT THE KIDS WANT TO

ENJOY LIFE ACCORDING TO THEM . THIS IS A BIG DIFFERENCE OF THOUGHT

PROCESS.

TODAY LIFE THINKS THAT THIS HAS TO BE CHANGED, BECAUSE THE KIDS WANT

TO LIVE THERE LIFE AS THEY WANT , NO INTERFERENCE IN THE LIFE OF ANY TYPE.

THIS MAKES THE LIFE OF THE AGED PERSON MISERABLE , BECAUSE OF THE NATURE

THAT THEY EXPECT, BUT THIS NATURE NEEDS TO BE CHANGED NOW.

AS DAUGHTER YOU NEED TO KEEP AWAY , THE SON DOES NOT WANT THE PARENTS

TO BE WITH HIM. AS THEN HE HAS TO TAKE THEIR CARE, AND THIS BECOMES A

BURDEN FOR HIM.

FOR THIS THEY BLINDLY SEND THEIR PERENTS TO ROAM ON ROADS , BECAUSE IN

INDIA YET THERE ARE NO PROPER OLD AGE HOMES TO KEEP THESE PEOPLE. FOR

EXAMPLE WE ALL KNOW THAT WIDOWS ROAM AROUND IN PUSHKAR , BANARAS ,

ANY MANY OTHER PLACES LIKE THIS , BUT WHAT IS ABOUT THEIR LIVING , AS

A PERSON NEEDS AT LEAST BASIC THINGS IN LIFE , LIKE FOOD ANS SHELTER.

BUT UNFORTUNATELY  THEY DO NOT GET IT , WHO IS RESPONSIBLE .NO ONE . ?

SOME ONE WOULD COME AND FEED THEM ONCE A WHILE THEN AFTER THAT ?

SO THIS NEEDS TO BE DONE ON GREATER SCALE . AS THIS THING WILL GO ON.

NO ONE CAN STOP THIS, AS WE ARE NOW INSPIRED BY WESTERN CULTURE . AS IN

AMERICA PEOPLE LEAD THEIR OWN LIFE THEY DO NOT EXPECT ANY THING FROM

THEIR KIDS ANY TIME , BUT IT IS THE SAME VISE VERSA , THAT THE KIDS DO NOT

EXPECT FROM THEM ANY THING.

THIS THING NEEDS TO BE ENTER IN INDIAN LIFE TOO , IF WE WANT TO SAVE THE 

ELDERS IN INDIA . OTHER WISE MANY WILL DIE , AND NO ONE WILL BE 

RESPONSIBLE  FOR THIS. WE ARE STRANGE PERSONS , AS WE DO NOT HAVE TIME

FOR OUR PARENTS BUT WE CAN SPEND TIME WITH OTHER PERSONS PARENTS . THIS

IS ALSO GOOD AT LEAST SOME ONE IS THERE .

BUT THERE NEEDS TO BE A PROPER SOLUTION AND THAT IS OLD AGE HOMES FOR

THE OLD PERSONS, THAT IS TO BE DONE. AND THIS SHOULD BE DONE AS SOON AS 

POSSIBLE SO THAT AT LEAST THEY ARE FED PROPERLY AND MEDICATED 

PROPERLY.




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TODAY'S CULTURE AND FAMILY BOND

                                       TODAY'S CULTURE AND  FAMILY BOND        

  TODAY  CULTURE   IS   DEMANDING   NUCLEAR  FAMILY  , BECAUSE   , THE    FAST

LIFE .   AND   IT    SHOULD  BE   THERE    ,AS    BOTH  HUSBAND   AND   WIFE     ARE    ,

WORKING  ,    SO   THAT   THEY    TOO  NEED   TO  HAVE   TIME   FOR   EACH   OTHER.

AND    IN   JOINT   FAMILY    THEY    DO    NOT   HAVE    THAT    TIME    AS   MANY

EXPECTATIONS    ARE   THERE   IN    THE   FAMILY,     SO    THAT   PERSONAL   LIFE

IS DISTURBED   , MANY   TIMES   DESTROYED.    SO   IT  IS   BETTER   TO   GO  FOR

NUCLEAR   FAMILY .

BUT    ON   OTHER   HAND  , WHAT    ABOUT   THE   PARENTS ,   A  BIG   QUESTION.

THE   ANSWER  IS   THAT   , THERE    NEEDS   TO    BE   OLD   AGE   HOME   TO   KEEP 

THE   ELDERS   CARE   PROPERLY,   SO  THAT   THEY   DO   NOT   MISS   THE   KIDS. AS

WE   INDIAN'S  YET   ARE  EMOTIONAL   FELLOW   , AND     FOR  THIS   WE   ARE

SOME WHAT    RIGID  , THIS   IS   ONLY REASON , AS   WHY  WE   WANT   FAMILY.

BUT    IT   NEEDS   TO  BE   CHANGED   NOW ,  AND   THE   OLDER  PERSON  ,   NEED TO

STAY    AWAY   AS   IN   FOREIGN   COUNTRY  THEY   DO .  BUT   KIDS   NEED   TO  BE

IN   CONTACT    WITH    THEM. IN TODAY'S  LIFE THE GOVERNMENT NEEDS TO WORK

ON THIS FACTOR AS IN INDIA TOO THERE SHOULD BE OLD AGE HOMES AS TODAY  A

BAHU IS WORKING TOO , AND AS SHE RETURNS HOME  SHE  CAN NOT REST A BIT

BECAUSE SHE HAS TO DO FIRST THE HOUSE HOLD WORK THEN  ONLY SHE CAN

THINK  OF HER SELF.   BUT THIS IS NOT GOOD FOR HER HEALTH , IN MANY HOMES

 THE BAHU IS TREATED AS BETI BUT THEN TOO HER WORK IS THE SAME , AS IF SHE

WANTS TO REST , SHE CAN NOT , AS THERE IS LOT OF WORK THAT SHE IS SUPPOSED

TO PERFORM.

THAT IS WHY NOW  INDIA TOO NEEDS  OLD AGE HOMES SO THAT PARENTS ARE

KEPT THERE  AND LOOKED AFTER  BY THE NURSE  AND ATTENDENT , AS  IN  THE

FORIEGN COUNTRY THEY DO.

AND THE OTHER CERTAIN THINGS ARE THERE TOO , THAT IS  INDIDA'S

EXPECTATION FRO THE BAHU , THAT LEVEL IS TOO HIGH YET , THAT IS TO BE AGAIN

THE MATTER WHICH TO BE CONTROLLED . IT IS A BIG POINT THAT TODAY GRAND

PARENTS ARE NOT INTERESTED IN TAKING CARE OF THE GRAND KIDS . SO THAT IN

THE PRESENCE  OF GRAND PARENTS THE KIDS FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE, SO THEY

SOME TIMES OPENLY ASK THEIR PARENTS , THAT WHY CAN'T  DADA AND DADI

LIVE IN OLD AGE HOME. WHY WE SEND THEM THERE. SO THAT THE PARENTS START

A SEARCH FOR THE OLD AGE HOME FOR THE PARENTS. ONLY BECAUSE THE KIDS

WANT TO LIVE THERE LIFE ANS THE HUSBAND AND WIFE TOO WANT TOO ENJOY 

THERE LIFE .

SO THIS IS CLEAR THAT TODAY IS THE TIME FOR NUCLEAR FAMILY AS EVERY

PERSON WANT'S TO LIVE THERE LIFE AND ENJOY IT WITH OUT BURDEN SO THAT

NOW IN INDIA TOO THERE IS A NEED OF OLD AGE HOMES TOO KEEP THE ELDERS

ELDERS THERE.

HERE WE NEED TO THINK TO TAKE UP THE PROCESS FOR THE NUCLEAR FAMILY 

PROGRAM.




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THE FORMATION AND CHANGE IN LIFE

THE FORMATION AND CHANGE IN LIFE  

 LIFE   IN   TODAY'S  WORLD  IS   SLIGHTLY   EMBARRASSING     FOR     EVERY   ONE .

AS    WE    DO   NOT   KNOW    AS    WHAT    WE    WANT , WE   JUST   WANT  ANY   ONE

WHO   LIKE     US  OR    LOVE    US   NEEDS   TO    BE    KNEEL  DOWN    IN    FRONT   OF

US  , IT    IS   NOT   LOVE   , BUT   ONLY     LUST  ,   IT   IS   NOT   LIFE   , LIFE    IS   TO

LOVE   AND   TO  BE   LOVED .   TODAY    WE     WANT    THAT   FAMILY    IS    ONLY

PARENTS    AND    KIDS   , IF   IT    IS   LIKE   THIS   THEN   , WE   NEED TO   MAKE

ARRANGEMENTS    FOR   OUR   PARENTS   AS   THEY    TOO   NEED CARE.   BUT  WE

WANT   TO    FORGET  THEM   WHY , BECAUSE  THEY  DO  NOT  WANT   TO  CHANGE

BUT   CAN'T  WE   CHANGE   THEM   WITH   LITTLE    EFFORT  AS   THIS   IS   TODAY'S

DEMAND.

TODAY LIFE AND DEMAND OF LIFE ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT , AS IN PAST WE DID

GET MARRIED REAR CHILDREN AND THEY GET MARRIED. WE DID HAD OUR SMALL

LIFE STYLE AND EASY LIFE. BUT TODAY THE LIFE PATTERN IS CHANGED .

AS FIRST WE WANT TO LOVE SOME ONE THEN ONLY WE WANT TO LIVE A LIFE WITH

THAT PERON , BUT IT IS NOT COPLESARY THAT WE DO MARRY THE SAME PERSON.

WHAT DO WE MEAN BY THIS . WE WANT TO ENJOY LIFE , BUT WE NEED TO GIVE A

SECOND THOUGHT , AS WHAT WE MEAN BY ENJOYING THE LIFE , IS ONLY LUST 

REMAINS IN THE LIFE TO BE ENJOYED , DO THE WORD LOVE HAS NO MEANING IN

THE LIFE. OR THE MEANING OF LOVE IS LUST . NO LOVE CAN NOT BE LUST.

BUT AS ADVOCATE WE SEE THAT PEOPLE AROUND USE JUST WANT TO SPEND

THERE LIFE FOR LUST WHICH THEY GIVE THE NAME OF LUST . IS IT HEALTHY FOR

THE LIFE , IF YES THE FROM WHICH ANGLE , CAN ANY BODY EXPLAIN THIS.

AS BECAUSE IF WE SPEND LIFE WITH LOVE WE HAVE A SWEET LIFE , BUT IN LUST

BOTH THE PARTNER ARE LOST FOR THE TIME BUT WHEN THEY DO ANY MISTAKE

THEN TI HIDE THE MISTAKE THEY RUN HERE AND THERE.

BY THIS STUDY WE CAN SAY THAT , LOVE YOUR LIFE , BUT DO NOT SPOIL IT FOR 

THE MAKING OF LOVE THAT IS LUST , AS THIS ONLY SPOIL YOUR LIFE.

BE FAITH FULL TO YOUR SELF NO ONE ELSE AS THIS IS YOUR LIFE.



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THE WRONG USE OR MISUSE OF FAMILY LAW

THE   WRONG   USE   OF   FAMILY LAW .

THE  CULTURE  IS   GOING  IN   BAD   CONDITION   AS  GIRLS  AND   BOY'S   ARE

USING    THE    LAW    AS    A   GAME     OR   FOR   THEIR    ILL    WILL  ,   THIS   IS

  WRONG   LAW   IS   TO    HELP   PEOPLE   NOT   TO    PLAY    WITH.

TODAY    THE   GIRLS    GET   MARRIED    AND    RUN   FROM   THE    HOUSE  FOR

NO    REASON.    THEN    SOME   TIME    AFTER  THEY   START    PLAY   WITH  LAW.

THE    BOY'S    DO    THE    SAME   ,   AS  THEY    START    AFFAIR    WITH    SOME   ONE

AND  LEAVE   THEIR     FAMILY    ABANDON    THIS    IS   WRONG ,   AS    THEY   RUN

FROM   LIFE , BUT   WHY  ?

WHY    ALL THIS   HAPPEN   AND WHY  THE    PARENTS   SUPPORT   THE WRONG 

 INTENTION  OF   THEIR  KIDS   , THIS  NEEDS TO BE  STOPPED

NOW THERE IS A BIG QUESTION THAT WY THE PEOPLE DO THIS , DO THEY FEEL

UN SAFE OR DO THEY JUST WANT TO REVENGE  BUT OF WHAT , CAN'T THEY SEE BY

DOING ALL THIS THEIR LIFE IS SPOILED , AS THE COURT CASE IS NOT A GAME OR

IT IS NOT  A EASY TASK TO PERFORM.

IF ONE FILES ONE CASE IT SOME TIMES TAKES YEARS TO FIND THE ACTUAL GUILTY

PERSON , REASON , THE CASE IS BASED OF BIAS FEELING OR BIAS ATTITUDE , BUT 

WHY ALL THIS HAPPENS. NO ONE WANTS TO THINK.

THE GIRL THINKS THAT SHE CAN OR WILL GO FOR 498 a IF THE IN LAWS DO ANY

HARM TO HER , BUT SHE DO NOT EVER TRY TO KNOW THE RESULT OF THIS,

BECAUSE AS THE CASE STARTS , BOTH THE FAMILY NEEDS TO JUST TO ATTEND

THE COURT SEVERAL TIMES , THIS IS VERY TIRING , MANY TIMES GIRLS WANT TO

SHIFT THE CASE TO THEIR NATIVE OR NEAR BY PLACE SO THAT THEY CAN ATTEND

HEARING EASILY.

BUT IN ALL THESE THINGS WE JUST FORGET THAT , IS OUR CASE THAT MUCH 

IMPORTANT , WHY CAN NOT THEY UNDER STAND EACH OTHER AND LIVE A GOOD 

LIFE.

WE SAY THIS BECAUSE , OF ALL THE FAKE CASES THE COURT CAN NOT GET GOOD

TIME FOR THE ACTUAL CASES, THIS IS SOME TIMES FUNNY. AS THE NEED FULL

GETS ANY REMEDY VERY LATE , BECAUSE OF THE MONEY MINDED PEOPLE .

HERE THE QUESTION COMES OUT THAT WHY CAN WE NOT COMPROMISE OR FORGET

SMALL THINGS IN OUR LIFE , DO WE REALLY GET MARRIED FOR THE DIVORCE 

ONLY.

IS THE LAW MADE FOR THIS ONLY. NO THE LAW IS NOT MADE FOR THIS , THE

LAW IS MADE TO HELP THOSE WHO ARE IN ACTUAL PAIN AND SUFFER A LOT.

SO THIS IS A HUMBLE REQUEST TO ALL THE GIRLS AND BOYS , THAT JUST THINK

TWICE OR MAY BE THRICE WHILE YOU START A GAME WITH LAW , THAT IS IT 

RIGHT OR WRONG FOR YOUR LIFE .

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GOOD AND BAD OF LIVE IN RELATION

LIVE  IN   RELATION   IN  PRESENT  LIFE ,   REASON  FOR   THE LIVE  IN   RELATION

STUDIES  SAY  THAT  ,  ONE   WANTS  TO  GO  FOR   LIVE   IN ,   BECAUSE   THEY  

WANT TO   WALK  AWAY     FROM   THE  TRADITIONAL    RITUALS   OF  NORMAL

LIFE  DO NOT  WANT  TO LIVE   AS   A  BAHU   , AS    THIS   POST   HAS   MANY

EXPECTATION BUT  IF   YOU   WANT   TO   GO   IN  LIVE   IN  RELATION ,

                 THEN   MUST   REMEMBER

THAT ,   THE  COUPLE  SHOULD   GO   FOR    A   MEMO.  THAT EXPLAIN,   THE RIGHTS

AND   LIABILITY    OF EACH  OTHER  ,   FINANCIAL    RESPONSIBILITY   FOR   EACH

OTHER.  PREFER  TO   MAKE   A   DEED   FOR   THIS. 

WHAT   IF   YOU   HAVE  A KID   ,   AS   THE   INDIAN    HIGH   COURT HAS   GIVEN  THE

VERDICT   THAT    ,   IN CASE  YOU   HAVE   THE    BABY   , THEN   YOU   ARE   THE

PARENTS   FOR    THE   LIFE  , YOU    CAN    NOT LEAVE    THE  BABY   ON   ROADS.

WHAT IS LIFE AS WHEN YOU AR IN LIVE IN RELATION , NOTHING , AS WHAT IS

YOUR DESIGNATION IN THE SOCIETY, ARE YOU THE HUSBAND OR THE  WIFE OF

OF ANY PERSON , OR IF YOU MEET OR GREET ANY ONE THEN WHAT WILL YOU

SHOW YOUR SELF AS , A PARTNER , BUT NOT SOCIAL OR LEGAL SO THEN WHAT

WILL THE SOCIETY EXPECT FROM YOU TO BE , AS  THE PARTNERS , THEN

WHAT TYPE OF PERTNERS , A BIG QUESTION.

SECOND THING YOU ARE NOT MR AND MRS, THEN WHAT ARE YOU.

AND BY ANY CHANCE YOU HAVE A KID , THEN ARE SURE TO BE TH KIDS PARENTS.

ARE YOU READY FOR THE SAME . AS SOME TIMES THE DOCTOR SAYS THAT YOU

HAVE TO BEAR THE KID THEN WHAT ARE YOU READY FOR THAT.

THIRD , ARE YOU SURE THAT , PERSON YOU ARE HAVING WITH YOU AS YOUR

HE  OR SHE WAS NOT ANY ONE'S PARTNER BEFORE YOU,  AND IF THEY WERE

THEN IS IT HEALTHY FOR YOU TO BE HIS OR HER PARTNER.

AND THEN COMES ONE MORE THING , THAT AS YOU ARE ONLY PARTNERS THEN

YOU ARE NOT SOCIALLY OR LEGALLY SECURE , THEN SO THAT YOU BOTH CAN

MOVE OUT NAY TIME , AND GO WITH SOME ONE ELSE , IS IT HEALTHY FOR YOUR

MENTAL HEALTH , AS HOW MANY TIMES WILL YOU DO THIS , HOW MANY TIMES

YOU SUPPOSE YOUR SELF TO DO THIS.

WE ONLY SUGGEST THIS THAT ONE NEED TO BE VERY CLEAR AS IF YOU WANT TO

GO FOR THIS THING ONLY THEN KINDLY MAKE A DEED OR BOND AS FOR THE TIME

YOU BOTH ARE FAITH FULL AND TRY NOT TO HAVE KIDS.


IMPORTANT   ,    THE   HIGH   COURT   SAYS ,  THAT   IF    YOU  LIVE   IN   RELATION

THEN   YOU    WILL BE  SUPPOSED   HUSBAND    AND    WIFE.  SO  BETTER   BE  THAT

ONLY,   WHY   TO   SPOIL   YOUR   LIFE   TO   AVOID   SOME    RITUALS.


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